10 Things Every Parent Should Know

All parents face challenges in childrearing. The challenges can be greater if you have a child with an autism spectrum disorder (ASD) or significant support needs. Here are 10 things to remember.

1. If you have concerns about your child, it is OK to seek help. Talk to your child’s teacher or in Ohio contact Help Me Grow toll free at 800-755-4769 to talk about your concerns and get a referral to an appropriate specialist.
2. Your child is, first and foremost, your child, a unique human being with gifts and challenges like all of us. It is the responsibility of the adults in your child’s world to learn how to support her successfully.
3. Your child is doing the very best he can with the support available at this stage of his development.
4. You are not alone. There are sources of support for parents of children with ASD and significant support needs. Both the Autism Society of Ohio (330.376.0211) and the Ohio Coalition for the Education of Children with Disabilities (800.374.2806) can help you find the information and services you need.
5. Other parents can be your lifeline during difficult times. Locate and attend a parent support group or link up with one online to share common issues and concerns and brainstorm solutions.
6. Take care of yourself. Sometimes we become so involved in supporting our child that we don’t take time for ourselves. Remember, you can’t give from an empty cup.
7. Although your child may have significant needs, it’s OK to take time for your other children and your spouse.
8. Be open to what others say, but trust yourself when it comes to your child and what she needs. You know your child and have important knowledge to share with others about her.
9. Remember, not everything has to be educational. Make sure your child has some time every day that’s fun.
10. We all belong. Allow your child to participate in community activities and give the community the opportunity to learn to support him.