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Supporting Toileting for Children with Disabilities

When To Seek More Support


You don't have to do this alone! If toileting feels overwhelming or unsuccessful, seeking help is a great next step! Professionals can help by providing treatment plans to support toileting challenges. Consider reaching out if these challenges persist over time:

  • Accidents that don't improve or lessen.
  • Signs of pain or discomfort when toileting (straining, avoiding the toilet because it hurts, etc.).
  • Strong resistance or fear of the bathroom.
  • Limited progress after several months, even with a structured plans in place.
  • The child's delays in communication make it difficulty to express needs.
  • Interfering behaviors (e.g. biting, hitting, etc.) that make the toileting process unsafe.

Who Can Help?

Toileting is a team effort. There are different professionals to support every step of the way.20

  • Pediatrician or Family Doctor:

    To rule out medical concerns like constipation, urinary tract infections, or gastrointestinal issues.

  • Occupational Therapist (OT):

    To provide sensory strategies, adaptive equipment (like potty seats or footstools), visual supports, and toileting plans.

  • Speech-Language Pathologist (SLP):

    To support communication strategies so your child can express when they need the bathroom.

  • Behavior Specialist or Psychologist:

    To help with interfering behaviors such as refusal, fear of the toilet, or resistance to routines.

  • Gastroenterologist (GI Specialist):

    For chronic constipation, diarrhea, or other bowel-related concerns that may interfere with toilet training.

  • School or Early Intervention Team:

    Teachers, aides, and other support staff can carry over strategies in the classroom to keep routines consistent.

Always Remember…

  • Be patient!

    Toileting is a journey, and positivity makes all the difference!

  • Consistency is key!

    Progress takes time, stick to the plan and don't give up!

  • You are never alone- Support is out there!

    Support groups, community resources, etc.

  • Celebrate wins!

    Build your child's confidence by celebrating both big and small victories along the way.