Supporting Toileting for Children with Disabilities
When To Seek More Support
You don't have to do this alone! If toileting feels overwhelming or unsuccessful, seeking help is a great next step! Professionals can help by providing treatment plans to support toileting challenges. Consider reaching out if these challenges persist over time:
- Accidents that don't improve or lessen.
- Signs of pain or discomfort when toileting (straining, avoiding the toilet because it hurts, etc.).
- Strong resistance or fear of the bathroom.
- Limited progress after several months, even with a structured plans in place.
- The child's delays in communication make it difficulty to express needs.
- Interfering behaviors (e.g. biting, hitting, etc.) that make the toileting process unsafe.
Who Can Help?
Toileting is a team effort. There are different professionals to support every step of the way.20
- Pediatrician or Family Doctor:
To rule out medical concerns like constipation, urinary tract infections, or gastrointestinal issues.
- Occupational Therapist (OT):
To provide sensory strategies, adaptive equipment (like potty seats or footstools), visual supports, and toileting plans.
- Speech-Language Pathologist (SLP):
To support communication strategies so your child can express when they need the bathroom.
- Behavior Specialist or Psychologist:
To help with interfering behaviors such as refusal, fear of the toilet, or resistance to routines.
- Gastroenterologist (GI Specialist):
For chronic constipation, diarrhea, or other bowel-related concerns that may interfere with toilet training.
- School or Early Intervention Team:
Teachers, aides, and other support staff can carry over strategies in the classroom to keep routines consistent.
Always Remember…
- Be patient!
Toileting is a journey, and positivity makes all the difference!
- Consistency is key!
Progress takes time, stick to the plan and don't give up!
- You are never alone- Support is out there!
Support groups, community resources, etc.
- Celebrate wins!
Build your child's confidence by celebrating both big and small victories along the way.